Divorce can be a complex and emotional process, especially when children are involved. In this article, the experienced attorneys at Rodier Family Law discuss six ways to make divorce easier for your children.

Be honest

Breaking the news to your kids is just as difficult for them to hear as it is for you to share. When telling your kids about your plan to divorce, try to be honest and tell them in an appropriate manner. Encourage them to ask questions and listen to their concerns. Remind them that it is not their fault and that you love them.

Minimize Conflict

Despite what may have happened to cause your divorce, it is important to not speak poorly about your spouse in front of your child. Remember that this is extremely difficult for your children to process and speaking negatively about your spouse will only make things harder for your children.

Stick to Their Routines

After a divorce, one of the most difficult things for your children is the amount of change that follows. Try to stick to their routines as much as possible to give them some stability.

Try Your Best to Co-Parent

Having arguments about your children may cause them to blame themselves for the divorce. It is important to try to avoid these arguments and not put your child in the middle of them. Try to speak directly to your ex-spouse instead of asking your child to pass information to their other parent. 

Encourage Them to Express Their Feelings

Listen to your child and help them acknowledge their feelings. During a divorce, a child may experience many different emotions, but it is important that you listen to how they feel and encourage them to express these feelings.

Make Time For Them

After a divorce, your child may feel that they are a burden. It is important to make extra time for them so that they feel loved and wanted. 

Divorce is an emotional process and it is important to do your best to help your kids through this challenging time. These tips can help ease the process for your children. If you are going through a divorce and have questions about how to talk to your kids, contact the experienced family law attorneys at Rodier Family Law today.